Show HN: Poppy – A simple app to stay intentional with relationships

(poppy-connection-keeper.netlify.app)

83 points | by mahirhiro 5 hours ago

22 comments

  • paulglx 6 minutes ago
    The AI writing is a big turn-off: if the app is crafted with the same care as the copy on the website, I'm not sure I want to trust the owner with VERY personal data like that :)
  • jamilton 3 hours ago
    Website looks nice. The copy being so painfully AI-written is a turnoff, enough that my first thought was "oh yeah, I remember hearing about this kind of app, I should look at the other one I'm thinking of". I do like that it's local and free.

    Imported some contacts, doing quick setup, first contact, can't scroll down to confirm/finish setting them up. I'm on the SE, which is a slightly smaller screen, sometimes apps seem to have trouble with it, I assume they're assuming a larger screen.

    • nullbyte808 2 hours ago
      How do you know its AI? Who cares, sounds fine too me.
  • swaminarayan 2 hours ago
    A lot of apps try to solve the “stay in touch with people” problem, but in my experience the novelty usually wears off after a while and the reminders start feeling like noise. Curious how you approached this in Poppy — did you design anything specifically to avoid reminder fatigue and make it sustainable long-term?
  • SeriousM 3 hours ago
    I really appreciate this work. Yes, it's AI language and it seems it's not polished to run on every device -yet.

    And it does one thing really good: be there. Sounds silly, I know, but an app that tries to make the world better AT NO COST is so much more than "well, I could vibe code that myself".

    Thanks fellow creator of this app. Thanks for believing that this app may have an impact on the important part of our life: re/connecting people.

  • dvt 3 hours ago
    "Poppy turns your contacts into a living garden. Gentle reminders, zero guilt."—bleh, at least write your own taglines :/

    This is a neat idea that has been tried about 300 times over, but since it's contingent on already being cognizant of keeping up with relationships, people that install it aren't going to people that need to be using it.

    • listic 11 minutes ago
      > This is a neat idea that has been tried about 300 times over

      Could you share the top 3 attempts that tried it and are better at it? I only know that things like this should exist, but didn't look any further into this class of things, yet.

      My idea of what to look into is some kind of CRM for my personal contacts.

    • wincy 2 hours ago
      I mean, I’m a pretty ADHD guy, very in the moment, and although I sporadically invite friends or old colleagues to catch up for lunch, I mean to do it regularly, but I might forget to invite them for years at a time, so this might be good for me. I could really used an “Anki for lunch”, spaced repetition reminders for people in my Rolodex, as it were.
      • opto 2 hours ago
        You just need a tickler file.
  • jonners00 3 hours ago
    This is great, but also not well suited (in terms of visuals, name, language) to some of the audiences that need it most. A version that resonates more with middle aged men would be great. Oak or something.
  • marvin-hansen 1 hour ago
    Totally love this app. I've always struggled with fostering relationships over time and keeping track of all the little things different people value. I actually tried a friend journal a week ago but that didn't worked as planned either. Once I installed this app, I pinged some folks, had a great unexpected call and now my garden is growing. I value the privacy & local first paradigm. I would have not installed a cloud SaaS app or hidden subscription. However I'm okay with paying a reasonable one time fee for an upgraded version. I did paid for IA Writer on Mac and iphone because their product is exactly right. Your app is similar in the sense that it solves one particular problem for one specific group of people really well. Therefore please consider a paid version at some point.
  • mekaoro 48 minutes ago
    Love the idea! Contrary to the comments i have seen this first time, just the website copy is AI generated hence it feels off.
  • togido 1 hour ago
    Hey it’s an amazing app. I was trying to make an app where user can send notifications to friends when they think about them. I think it would be a great additional feature to your app! Reach me if you want to talk about it
  • HaloZero 3 hours ago
    I love this! It’s a fantastic little free app. Any reason you don’t open source it? I’d love to help fix some bugs that I encounter.
  • Madmallard 15 minutes ago
    The solution to fostering relationships is getting off the computer and your phone and social media for a prolonged period of time.
  • bahador 3 hours ago
    Is this a CRM for your friends? FRM? FriendsForce?
  • dddddaviddddd 3 hours ago
    It would be nice if the homepage loaded more gracefully with Javascript disabled -- as it is, it's completely blank without JS.
  • adi2907 3 hours ago
    This is definitely very useful, and something i've been thinking of to build myself. A personal CRM. Issue is when I see something like this - where it will take me around half hour to figure out - while i can vibe code something in an hour which will do much more and personalize it for me, I hold back on trying it out.
  • seism 3 hours ago
    Beautiful. I am a little worried that you’ll soon lose interest and stop supporting the app without a business model. Do you plan to at least get sponsored, e.g. by some kind of foundation, like ones that are behind mental health initiatives?
  • MagicMoonlight 59 minutes ago
    You definitely slopcoded this entire thing, including all the text. It ha that weird AI tone to it.
  • downboots 2 hours ago
    Duolingo for relationships. The word engagement is hot lately.
  • paulhebert 3 hours ago
    This looks lovely! I've been meaning to do a better job of calling friends and family. I'll try it out!
  • zlies 3 hours ago
    Nice Idea! I noticed a bug during contact import. The month of birthdays are shifted -1 :)
  • kingkawn 2 hours ago
    AI writing = nobody will read it. The lure of easy perfection is death to meaningful interaction.
  • devcraft_ai 59 minutes ago
    [dead]